Monday, March 29, 2010

March Book


I probably read this book in elementry and I've seen the movie plenty of times! But it was so fun to read as an adult. I mostly picked this one because I knew I needed to read a book this month and I wanted to start reading to Violet. (And it was the only interesting book at the moment on my parents bookshelf. I think it might be the original book cover...its super old looking..) Anyways I didn't realize this as a child but Charlotte's Web is all about death, even from the very beginning with Fern saving Wilbur. I thought that the death subject was so interesting in a such a beloved children's book. I guess it would be good to read or watch the movie with your child and then discuss death afterwards...or is that too morbid? I got a little annoyed with Wilbur's character, he was just whined all the time and was frantic about everything! But then again I had to remember he was only a baby in the story, and well that's what babies do! I forgot how sweet Charlotte's charater is to all the animals. She reminded me a lot of a "christ figure" in the story. She befriend Wilbur, risked it all to save him from dying, like Jesus did for his people. She even left him with helpers as her children...like Jesus sent the Holy Spirit. okay I may be getting too into the spiritual connection here, but it just struck me as to how loyal, accepting, and loving Charlotte was to Wilbur. Anyways Violet and I had a great time reading together :)

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Sleep

So the main question these days is "Is Violet sleeping through the night?" I dont mind it at all, its kind of funny because it's such a curiosity! We are so thankful to say that "yes" at 6 weeks she is sleeping through the night. (and books I have read that a baby sleeping through the night is at least 5 hours) Since she born we always had to wake her up to feed her at night in the first couple of weeks. After her 4 week/one month appointment the doctor said we didn't have to since she was doing great at gaining sufficent weight. Before the doctors appointment I had been setting my alarm clock durning the day and night in order to be on scheudle of feeding her every 3 hours. I mean it was a "loose" schedule...if she woke up before then we would feed her. But it's been really nice to not have to set an alarm all the time!! At night Violet usually goes 4-6 hours from the start of a feeding until the start of the next. But the last two nights she went 8 hours! It was wonderful to sleep a longer amount of time! Anyways if you are pregnant or have a baby I would recommend reading "Baby Wise" or getting the DVD "The Happiest Baby on the Block"

Saturday, March 6, 2010

3 weeks

We have been parents for 3 weeks now! Time really has flown by, I mean I feel like we've had her longer than that. Anyways in no particular order here are a few things that I have learned/realized in the past couple of weeks:

-Always nap when Violet is napping. At least one a day...
-Bad directions + a crying baby = a crying mom and crying baby who doesn't make their appointment
-Remember to shower
-I thought during pregnancy I was hungry...breastfeeding burns on average 500+ calories a day, so always eat and drink lots.
-Speaking of food, I've been craving salads the past 3 weeks.
-When I start to make a meal/snack by the time its ready to eat it seems Violet will cry/fuss...so I gotta be quick.
-Getting out/running an errand by myself feels strange.
-Not sleeping 6-8 hours at night is now normal. But at least V is on a 4 hour schedule at night.
-Always accept help
-My mom tears up almost every morning when I bring Violet downstairs.
-Making the "shhhhhhh" sound loudly calms V.
-Running water sometimes make V sleep.
-I got a CD alarm clock a few years ago that has nature sounds on it. It's been wonderful!
-Sometimes I confuse the sounds of Violet and my parents cat Gary
-Baby girls will pee on you when you change them, it's not just baby boys.
-My pre-pregancy clothes still dont fit and it's okay it's only been 3 weeks.
-Be nice to Bryson